Everyone has seen a man who is on a date flash his eyes at the waitress’s behind when she walks past the table. Why is it that he is sitting in front of a girl who is totally fit, yet he is now eyeing another woman? Is it part of a man’s nature to always look for the next one even when his girl is sitting right in front of him? Men and women can often think about relationships and sexual encounters with very different mind sets. Men can be worked with, but few can be trained. One with loose eyes may always have loose eyes.
The male psyche can be one of high maintenance. While guys don’t act needy or need emotional support, they do like having their ego serviced by a lady every now and again. The reason their eyes are wandering are because he’s already sealed the deal with his lady. He knows that she’s into him and he doesn’t need to doubt that at all. Men have more of a tendency to think of sex as a conquest and can see any attractive woman that might walk on by as something they would like to conquer. Even if they can’t touch, looking is just as good sometimes. While sex can be something we become emotionally invested in, men can often be satisfied with the conquest and experience.
Just because a man is caught looking at other women doesn’t mean he’s cheating or is likely to cheat. It means he’s normal. All the time he has spent single before the current relationship, he has leisurely spend his time eyeing females and thinking about which ones he would like to approach. The looking is a conditioned behavior that is hard to discourage. To be fair to the male gender, all people notice when they see something they like. Just because you might be in a relationship, it doesn’t mean you can’t appreciate the look someone else has. Sex appeal is chemical and impulsive, so it is hard to judge looking as a rational/cognitive decision.
It is easy to thing a man is a pig when he is caught staring down other women, but it doesn’t have to be as horrible as it seems. As long as the guy is looking and not touching, he really isn’t committing any crimes here. As the girlfriend, it might even be helpful for you to catch your man looking as few times. You can start to notice what the things are that are turning his head. Slap him on the wrist when you catch him, but it doesn’t have to start a fight.